Saturday, July 16, 2011
"the mystical public relations people you speak of..., said "R"
Music fills the cab of my truck. I hear, "I want it all, I want it all, I want it all. And I want it now." Reminds me of the last few days and having several commentators to my blog pushing for an immediate publication of their comments. And the accusations of one administrator to HM4HB that because I only responded to "the professionals," I was showing my disregard (disrespect) for the moms who administrators of HM4HB. Yikes blasted again and again, what's an old lady to do? Yes, yes, must defend myself. How could they not know me and my life? The premise is that the internet encourages community and transparency. So how come they don't know me?
Okay for those of you who don't know my schedule, here it is. I am employed outside the home. Sometimes I work 12 hours in one day. My employment is not related to breastfeeding. Some weeks I work 6 days. I am tired and blurry eyed and I am 60 years old. So immediate responses to my blog are limited by how long I have worked and how tired I am. I realize that is no excuse because there are no excuses in the Virtual. This is for Agustina, who believes that I only responded to "the professionals." Hm... Yesterday I started to respond to the comments. The first comment I received was from Karleen Gribble and second comment was from Jodine Chase. By the time I finished my comments to each of them, I had to go to work. I know a likely excuse. I had planned to respond to each and every comment. But...heck this is the internet and your impression of me has to be right. I am an elitist and only respond to "the professionals." Funny thing is that I was a stay-at-home mom myself until my divorce. Then I became a single parent with 3 kids and I had to find employment or live on the side of the road. I don't believe that a mom who stays home with their kids lacks intelligence, diligence, creativity, etc. If I did, then I would truly not believe in my own values.
My understanding from the flow of the comments is that almost all administrators to HM4HB deny that anyone at HM4HB is employed in the field of public relations. So either they did not know that Jodine Chase was employed (I believe her own company) in Public Relations or they lied. I believe that they did not know. I don't think they lied. Which makes me question the whole belief by HM4HB that the internet is community and transparent.
I find it strange that Jodine right from the start of her comments did not say that she no longer volunteered for HM4HB. It would seem to me that that would be a key statement to be made from the start. Someone says the organization has a PR person in it, then it would seem that one would immediately dispel that notion. Only much later, is this brought up. And brought up after comments by other administrators who declare that there are no PR people in their organization. So Jodine is no longer in the organization, except for one project, HM4HB Week.
I know Jodine from some time back. I knew she was in public relations. In fact I thought she did PR work for HMBANA. So I was somewhat confused by her involvement with HM4HB/Eats on Feets. Because I believed that HMBANA is absolutely opposed to moms milk sharing over the internet. In fact in 2000 HMBANA met with the FDA to suggest that regulation of milk sharing is needed because of the internet. I believed that HM4HB was opposed to organized milk banking. Wrong. I happened to browse the Facebook page of HMBANA and a Facebook page for HM4HB page and both organization do not seem adverse to helping each other through HMBANA's critical donor milk shortage. Posted on Wednesday, April 13, 2011 at a Facebook page on HM4HB is a suggestion to moms that "if you have milk to share, you might want to see if you are close to a HMBANA milk bank.."
To see HMBANA's comments about HM4HB
Will the real mystical public relation people stand up? Nope, it's the Virtual and nothing is as it seems.
Copyright 2011 Valerie W. McClain